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雙職家庭月入4萬 憂貿然移民難謀生 港媽與丈夫冷戰
16 May 2022

 

近年本港出現「移民潮」,有市民因種種原因舉家移居外地,但若準備不足,或會衍生更多家庭問題。一名港媽近日在網上討論區提到丈夫希望移民外地,但她因擔心在外謀生困難,且丈夫能力不足,因而有所猶疑,夫妻更因「移民」問題多次冷戰。不少網民直言,若無相應經濟水平及謀生能力,貿然移民只會釀成更多家庭問題,提醒事主要三思。 

 

 

事主在帖文中提到,自己與丈夫同樣四十多歲、有兩名分別5歲及1歲的孩子,英文水平一般,雙職家庭月入約4萬元,雖然無甚積蓄,但仍算「有車有樓」一族,生活尚算安穩。近期丈夫希望趁機會移民,認為孩子在外地可接受更好教育,雖然事主認同此觀點,但她仍有不少顧慮,一方面因家中年逾70歲的老人家健康開始走下坡,且已表明不會離港,捨不得離他而去。而且她亦擔心移居外地後難以謀生。 
 
事主提到,雖然丈夫聲言移居外地後將外出工作,但她質疑對方能否做得到「我好肯定佢係得個講字」。事主認為丈夫不會積極找工作,即使有幸覓得工作,仍會有理由嫌辛苦不幹:「就算好彩搵到,都會有十萬個理由話辛苦唔做再搵過。」即使調轉「女主外男主內」,事主同樣質疑丈夫能力:「湊仔方式係電話、電視同遊戲機放題」、又指丈夫長時間在家也會推搪做家務:「絕對係陣間先、下次先、再遲啲先,拖到我頂唔順做埋」。夫妻因移民話題冷戰多次。 

事主的經歷引發了網民熱烈討論,多數網民認為移民事關重大,需要三思而後行,其中有人認為,本地學校也可有較高質素的教育:「點為之較好的教育? 較好的教育出來效果就係錢。」另有網民認為,能力不足夠下貿然移民,只會在外地面對更多困難甚至衝突:「我都覺佢地去到外國更加會吵大鑊。」 「無心無力,錢不多,要三思。」 

 

資料來源:親子王國、星島日報

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