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職場被欺凌? 兩大心得助你撃退麻煩同事
16 Nov 2018



上個月談到在工作的時候上司給予的壓力。其實工作壓力豈止來自上司?遇上麻煩同事,有時也會讓人工作得不開心。

就好像阿琛,她有一個名叫飛飛的同事,二人同工、同酬、同職級、同地位,但飛飛總是表現得像她的上司一樣:「這份Project你做。」

明明是上司Roger給飛飛做的,但卻經常吩咐她;「這份Project的第五十三頁錯了一個標點符號你知道嗎?」常把阿琛的小錯誤無限放大,說得她像是一無是處的;「Roger,是阿琛的錯,我代她向你道歉。」其實是飛飛自己的錯,但阿琛卻有冤無路訴;「這個Project提早了三日完成,雖然辛苦,但很值得。」有功勞的時候就搶着向上司領功,但其實辛苦的是阿琛。

遇上這種仗勢欺凌的同事,如果退縮,她只會變本加厲。最有效的方法是直接告訴她問題所在,並聲明:「如有再犯,我必定會向上司投訴!」——然而,如果是懂還擊的性格,就不會被欺負了。

這時候,有兩件容易做的事:第一,可以向其他同事傾訴,也許有其他同事有同感,甚至一起被欺凌過,無論如何,都可以宣洩情緒;第二、向上司投訴。投訴不是謾罵,而是說出事實;有時間、地點、人證,再交由上司判斷。忍氣吞聲不是辦法,有人不想破壞公司的氣氛,但其實維持氣氛和諧是每個人的責任。

投訴是解決問題的第一步。「這不是添煩添亂」,必須有此覺悟,才能讓自己安心工作。


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資料來源:頭條日報專欄、
精神科專科何美怡醫生

 

 

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