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與iBanker女友月薪差距達5倍 港男:今世點努力都追唔到佢一半
11 Aug 2021

 

情侶收入差距大或會帶來感情問題。有男網民於討論區發文指,與任職iBanker(投資銀行家)的女友月薪差距達5倍。即使女友沒有嫌棄,但該網民亦感到自卑,覺得自己「食軟飯」無尊嚴,不禁嘆息,「今世點努力應該都追唔到佢一半」,帖文引起網民熱論。

 

該男網民於「連登討論區」發文


該男網民於「連登討論區」發文指,自己任職一間證券行的職員,月薪約2萬元,而女友任職ibank,月薪高達10萬元,面對5倍的收入差距,樓主亦坦言感沉重的壓力。雖然女友不介意他人工高低,「佢話唔介意錢多錢少」,惟樓主卻感自卑,「低人工顯得男人好廢柴」,又擔心日後的差距只會愈來愈大,「今世點努力應該都追唔到佢一半」。

 

樓主指月薪的差距始終是一大阻礙,感難以接受。

 

樓主又透露指,女友是經父親的朋友介紹,並指女友喜歡他「夠誠實,感情專一,會錫佢」,且兩人價值觀相近,女友平日都會到茶餐廳吃飯或自己煮食。惟月薪的差距始終是一大阻礙,令樓主感難以接受,「過唔到自己個關,唔想成世畀女友騎住,畀人話食軟飯,活得好無尊嚴」、「佢咁高人工家境又好,我覺得我高攀唔起」。

帖文引起網民的熱論,有網民表示現時男女平等,籲樓主毋須過於介懷,「樓主唔好諗太多,女友唔介意就得,出街食飯等你畀返錢,唔好使佢錢,唔好亂諗嘢,如果唔係就散硬,你覺得條路難行就放低啦」、「人哋唔care咪得,與其自卑不如好好戀愛」、「佢同得你一齊已經唔介意你人工,相反如果你介意又點解要一齊,所以唔好諗咁多」。

有網民表示與樓主感同身受,「其實好多人唔明但我明,仲要明明無使佢錢,好多時畀多啲,但個個都話你或覺得你食緊軟飯,抬唔起頭做人」。

 

資料來源:連登 / 星島日報

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